A Valentine to Your Libido: Boost Sex Drive Before and After V-Day
If you have stumbled across this blog, you’re probably wondering how you can reignite that flame you once had, you’re not alone. Over 40% of women experience low sexual desire, and getting it back can seem impossible, especially during menopause or perimenopause. Fortunately, recovering your desire is anything but unachievable. Don’t throw those rose petals out just yet!
This Valentine’s Day, it’s all about desire; let’s talk about how you can bring yours back up.
When Desire Changes: What Really Causes Low Libido in Women
Low libido in women can be caused by many factors:
- Hormonal Changes: Hormonal changes, like menopause and perimenopause.
- Lifestyle Changes: Weight gain, physical inactivity, and habits like smoking and alcohol.
- Psychological Changes: Low quality sleep, stress, and the state of your mental health.
Fortunately, there are plenty of remedies to help boost that desire again, and just in time for Valentine’s Day!
Reawakening That Connection: Natural Ways to Boost Libido in Women
- Kegels, Planks, Cardio and Yoga
Kegels are a way to strengthen your pelvic muscles, see improvements in bladder control, and most importantly improve your sex life. Other exercises like planks, cardio, and yoga are not only beneficial for your health but they also help boost that sexual urge.
Processed foods, sugary drinks, overconsumption of alcohol, smoking, and fatty food can have negative effects on your libido over time. By contrast, studies have shown that foods like avocado, pomegranate, salmon, and tuna can improve your sexual desire. Fun fact: dark chocolate is known for promoting serotonin release, making it a mood starter and giving your libido a pick-me-up.
- You-time
With life’s stress, it is easy to forget that you need time for yourself. Taking a few moments to yourself throughout the day can have a positive impact on your mental health and libido. Reading a book, going for a walk, limiting screen time, or even meditation are a few simple ways to help relieve stress and feel more in tune with your body.
- Increasing Intimacy
Libido is an inner urge, but it can be increased through practice. Even small gestures like holding hands, cuddling, or even making meaningful eye contact can be beneficial to your libido and support closeness between you and your partner. These simple actions can keep the spark alive, well beyond Valentine’s Day.
Care that Cares: How HerKare can Help
Lifestyle changes are often the big first step when it comes to supporting your libido. However, for women who have tried all these things and still seen no boost in libido, it may be time to look into hormonal testing.
Menopause and perimenopause often have negative impacts on your libido, but luckily, there are options and support available.
At HerKare, we offer individualized hormone replacement therapy (women’s HRT) to regulate your hormones and help you renew your vitality.
HRT involves three key hormones that work together to support your libido, energy, and overall well-being:
Estrogen supports vaginal tissue health and blood flow, helping the body feel comfortable and connected.
Progesterone helps with balance and mood, creating a space where your desire can naturally grow.
Testosterone plays an important role by supporting sexual desire, contributing to a healthy libido.
At HerKare, our team may recommend hormone replacement therapy tailored to your needs and goals, including libido support. HRT comes in a variety of options, each designed to address different symptoms and help you on your journey to sexual wellness:
- Pills (Systemic Estrogen): Estrogen pills deliver estrogen right to the bloodstream to help reduce the symptoms of menopause. By improving overall well-being, they also help increase libido.
- Injections: HRT injections work by delivering hormones directly to the body for faster absorption. HRT injections are proven to boost mood, promote better sleep, and boost sex drive.
- Topical Creams: These are efficient for directly elevating sexual desire by relieving vaginal dryness and promoting moisture and tissue health.
- Pellet Therapy: Hormone pellet therapy acts through a small pellet that is inserted under the skin, releasing hormones slowly and steadily. This steady support help keep hormones aligned which maintains a stable and improved libido.
These HRT options can be used individually or in combination, depending on your unique needs.
Intimacy and desire change over time, and that is completely normal. Rediscovering your desire is not just about sex, but about feeling vibrant, confident, and connected every day.
This Valentine’s Day, don’t just save the spark for one night. HerKare is here to help support your libido and intimate connection, so you can feel your best in and out the bedroom.
Want to see how Women’s Hormone Replacement Therapy can change your life? Book your appointment today!
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Food for Female Sex Drive: 30 Tips for Boosting Libido